date, Think, please, drugged, raped...help, roofies


by LShave

Question by seduceuux3: i think i was drugged with roofies and date raped...help please :(?

im 19 yrs old and i met a 22 yr old guy two and a half weeks ago at a club...i thought we hit it off really good and we talked for two weeks. i live on long island and he lives in upstate ny (about an hr and a half from my house) and we texted and talked on the phone EVERY day for two weeks..i started to like him and he told me he liked me to.

he kept bringing up sex though and he kept saying i should go to his house and sleep there for the night..and i repeatedly told him im looking for a relationship and NOT sex and that if he only wanted sex, to just tell me straight out. and he kept saying "no im not like that babe" so i kinda just let it go i guess.

well on friday feb 25th, him and his friend came to long island to pick me and my girl friend up to go to a nearby long island club...i drank a little and i would say i was probably typsy. and we got to the club and he bought me a redbull and vodka..i drank that and i think he might have had a few sips of it im not sure. then we were dancing, then he got me another drink (i have no clue what the drink was though or how much i drank of it or if he drank any of it) and we were dancing and then he went over to the bouncer, asked the bouncer something, came back to me, and either said "lets go for a walk" or "lets go outside" and i remember walking out of the club and from that point on i was blacked out.

and i never black out from drinking and i know i was not just "trashed/wasted" bc when i am really drunk i fall and cant stand up especially when i am in heels. and i didnt fall or stumble at all. we ended up going into the trunk of his friends car and having sex. the only thing i remmeber the whole time was 1. that he told me he had a condom on and i felt it to make sure bc i couldnt see at all bc everything was so blurry and dark...and 2.somehow we made it from the trunk to the FRONT seats and i dont have a clue how i got there but i remember i was sitting in the passenger seat and he was sitting in the drivier seat and he was telling me to sit on him and i turned around and my friend and his friend were having sex in the back seat naked and he slapped my friends ass and i got mad..and thats all i remembered. i got home an hour late and my friend slept over.

i woke up the next morning and felt like i had to puke for about a half hour to an hour but i didnt puke. then my friend woke up and told me what happened and i was like 'are you serious' bc i didnt remember any of it except for two parts. then he called me and asked me if i had fun and stuff and i asked him what happened bc i didnt remember any of it and he told me everything and i asked if he came in me and he said "no i didnt. but the condom broke so i took it off, came outside, and we started having sex again. plz dont tell me you regret it" and i said "idk". and all day saturday and all ngiht saturday i was NOT sober at all. i woke up sunday sober. i didnt think much of what happened.

but tuesday night i was telling my guy best friend about what happened and his first thought was that the 22 yr old put roofies in my drink. i texted the 22 year old saying this and only this "i think its really WEIRD how i blacked out for hours friday night..." and he responded by calling me and yelling at me saying 'do you really think i would do that to you seriously. i cant believe you wuould think i would do that. you know what, have fun tonight and you do you and im gonna go to the bar with my boys bc you just made me so mad".

i dont know what to think of this whole entire thing. im very confused and hurt and i need help. my friend told me i never said no to him. But, from all the info i have looked up about roofies and date rape drugs, when someone is drugged and they are unaware, they become basicly a rag doll and do not understand anything that is going on. i do remember feeling very confused. what do i do =[
any info anyone has will help me alot. thank you.
thanks so much all of you it means alot. im going through a hard time right now and not sure what to do. i plan on attending counseling soon and taking it from there. i will never ever speak to him again it just sucks i had to learn the hard way. =[




Best answer:

Answer by nowi'mnothing.
wow, scary situation. i would urge you never to go out with this guy again. it does sound like he drugged you and had his way with you...you have to decide what you want to do. do you want to try and talk to the police about this? do you just want some one to talk to? im sorry you went through this, but next time never accept a drink from a man EVER. i ALWAYS buy my own drinks and never take a drink from anyone!

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